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Review: If I Stay by Gayle Forman


If I Stay by Gayle Forman 3.5/5

6tag_250417-120525Just listen, Adam says with a voice that sounds like shrapnel.

I open my eyes wide now.
I sit up as much as I can.
And I listen.

Stay, he says.

Choices. Seventeen-year-old Mia is faced with some tough ones: Stay true to her first love—music—even if it means losing her boyfriend and leaving her family and friends behind?

Then one February morning Mia goes for a drive with her family, and in an instant, everything changes. Suddenly, all the choices are gone, except one. And it’s the only one that matters.

If I Stay is a heartachingly beautiful book about the power of love, the true meaning of family, and the choices we all make.


One freak accident changes Mia’s life forever. Does she want to come back and face reality, or will she decide not to stay?

This book has an important message that highlights the power of love and family. The hard hitting storyline with very real consequences drives home the importance of what most of us take for granted.

Forman effortlessly captured the mind set of seventeen year old Mia, dealing with school, her boyfriend, her friendships, and her insecurities. I enjoyed reading Mia’s memories of her perfectly dysfunctional family, and her quest to find who she is. Her interesting POV of the aftermath of the tragedy that ultimately sees her making an important decision, intrigued me from the start, and Mia’s reactions to it felt genuine. Yes, she came across as naive in places, but she is a seventeen year old girl trying to process grief and the meaning of her existence.

I was told by many book friends to have the tissues ready for this one, and after reading such high praising reviews, I was hoping to be moved more than I actually was. Don’t get me wrong, I believe the book to be heartfelt and the message to be important, but I didn’t find myself a blubbing wreck.

In summary, a YA book that takes a tragedy and manages to get the reader focussing on the power of love.

The opinions expressed here are those of K.J.Chapman and no other parties

All books reviewed on this blog have been read by K.J.Chapman

K.J.Chapman has not been paid for this review

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